Understanding Marriage Counseling by Quinny Ilardi – A Book Review

The Marriage Counseling Cure by Quincy Il is the second book of the series “The Marriage Report” series. This book provides marriage counseling help for everyone, regardless of how serious their marital problems are. The author of this book is a certified counselor who has been a licensed therapist for the last 15 years. She has a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy and has worked with people from all walks of life. In fact, she has coached my own son.

I was very hesitant about this book, which is not just a work of fiction, but a real life experience of how I and my wife fought. If you have been in a marriage that seems to be getting away from you, this book will open your eyes and help you see what is really causing the problems. You may see some things you could have done differently and resolved long ago.

I received the book in an e-mailed format and read it quickly and then downloaded the PDF file. After that, I understood what the author was trying to get across to me. I believe that everyone deserves a second chance and the marriage counseling process is meant to help the couple rediscover each others love and commitment. The author makes a few recommendations in this book to assist you with your own marriage. But, I think I would have benefited from a more extensive reading of the entire book. For instance, I think she would have benefited if she had written this book with an introduction about her own experiences as well as sharing insights from her work.

I think everyone needs a reality check when looking at marriage and divorce. This book certainly has that. In addition, it touches on how important patience can be. This is extremely important in any situation and particularly when you have been married for quite some time and your spouse just doesn’t want to make any more. It takes a lot of patience to mend a broken marriage.

If you are in a situation where you may be thinking of having a marriage counseling session one of the best things you can do is take the time to really examine your marriage and try and determine if there is anything you can do differently. If there are indeed things that need to be changed or corrected, these should be discussed and resolved at this first time. By not addressing issues at this early stage, more damage could be done before any changes can be made.

When I was finished reading the book, I realized that this is not your typical “your wife won’t have sex with you anymore” book. I did not see that at first. But, when I started to read it I realized that I had been so focused on the negative things that were said in the book that I hadn’t noticed the positive things that she mentioned. So, I learned something about marriage and divorce that will benefit me for the rest of my life.