Can a marriage be saved when only one person wants it fixed? This is the question that has been plaguing couples since time immemorial. The sad fact is that not all marriages make it to the next generation. If you and your partner are experiencing marital problems, then it would be best to get a divorce and separate from each other.
In our society today, people are selfish and only think of themselves first. They put themselves last. A marriage is a sacred union between two individuals who share the same soul, mind and body. In order for any marriage to last, both partners should be eternally committed to the relationship. To save a marriage is a Herculean task that most couple faces, but it can be done.
Before we discuss the answer to the question can a marriage be saved, let’s define what marriage is. Marriage is a relationship that has been formed by a man and a woman in their own house, with the husband and wife living under one roof. Marriage ensures that the husband and wife to love and respect each other. It is the promise made by the two parties that they will wed and stay married till death do them part. Therefore, in order to save a marriage, both the parties must want it to be saved.
When the two parties in a marriage realize that they don’t want to stay married, they reach an agreement to get divorced and separate. If they still love each other, then they can reconcile after a lapse of time. The couple should then decide on what measures they are going to take to rebuild their relationship. If they still want to get married, then the marriage should be restored and the divorce paperwork should be signed on paper.
If only one spouse wants a divorce, then counseling is the first step that needs to be taken. In counseling, the husband and wife should work out on how they can fix their marriage together. A counselor will also tell the couple to avoid doing things that might make the problems persist. Once the counseling session is over, then the problem can be solved.
Another way to be able to save a marriage is to convince one person to stay in the marriage. If this doesn’t work, then the divorce papers should be finalized and the process of getting a divorce started can be started. When one person decides to remain in the marriage, the other partner can still try to save it if he or she does not want to get a divorce.
Sometimes, it is not the fault of the one who wants to end the marriage. It can be that the partner who is having trouble with his or her partner is the one who is having trouble with his or her life as well. In this case, it can be hard to save a marriage because the affected partner may not realize that there are problems with the marriage. Then, when the partner realizes that there are things missing in his or her life, then maybe he or she will try to fix the problems with the marriage. Although this can be hard, it can still be done and if it can be done, then the marriage can still be saved.
There is no exact answer to the question “Can a marriage be saved if only one person wants it back”. If both parties are willing to work on it, then both parties can actually save the marriage and have something to look forward to in the future. Both parties should be willing to give each other time to think about what to do. This will help both parties to decide if they really want to keep the marriage and work on it.